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Posts on religious trauma, cults, purity culture, queerness and working out life after a high-control group. Some are practical, some are personal, and you can start anywhere.
What to Say When Family Asks Why You Left (And What You Don't Owe Them)
You don't owe family a full explanation for leaving. Practical language for these conversations, and where the obligation to explain actually ends.
Grieving Parents Who Are Still Alive
Estrangement grief doesn't get a funeral or a clear ending. What it means to grieve a relationship that's still, technically, available.
Supporting Clients With Family Rupture in High-Control Backgrounds
Family rupture in religious trauma clients rarely follows standard estrangement patterns. What clinicians need to know.
When Family Loyalty Is Tied to Faith
When love from family was always conditional on faith, boundaries can feel like betrayal. What's actually happening, and what safety costs.
Purity Culture Didn’t Just Impact Sex, It Reshaped How We Do Relationships
Learn about the broader implications of Purity Culture on intimacy and relationships, far beyond sexual issues and abstinence.
Communication, Jealousy, and the Things We Were Never Taught About Love
Unpack the layers of jealousy as you shift from monogamy to polyamory in your relationship dynamics and communication.
Deconstructing Monogamy - Our Story of Embracing Polyamory
Delve into polyamory and the shift from monogamy with insights from personal experiences and reflections on love.
What Is Polyamory? And What It Definitely Isn’t.
Explore the concept of polyamory and challenge traditional views. Let's also smash some harmful myths about poly relationships!